But the good news is. We both are Christians and I do know that I didn’t go into it with good intentions. Yes that sounds like the relationship that I was in over a year ago. Like could his no but a no for the time being or forever? Anyway he broke up with me saying he didn’t think he could be the man i needed. Our years on this planet are brief, and none of us want to waste them. A month later we got back together and it was amazing. Well we tried pushing for almost a yr till I finally told him he could stop if he’s stop if he wants to cause I too could understand. Find women in your local church that you can connect with and seek wise counsel from your pastors about your questions. For women, it is very often the desire to be married. Justine. The great loose of my life. I need help! I prayed to God to touch his heart. Gods plan is bigger. The second reason why God takes away a relationship is closely linked to the first one, yet worth pointing out again. So, neither you nor I can tell why the break-up happened. I highly thank you for this. I don’t know if they all influenced him to leave a girl who doesn’t want him gaming all day because that is all they seemed to care about. I knew this is the man I want to marry. I will pray for you. But that moment, the feeling i only keep to myself. Within three weeks my first meeting them I played a large defining role in aiding her successful Escape and avoidance for successfully getting away from that man. I’ve got a chronic illness and have been praying for healing and I got a word from God saying obey me and I will heal you – open your ears and when I tell you to talk, talk and when I tell you to pray, pray. I pray you get closer to God and find the woman that he has for you. Use the word of God to analyze a situation first, before you use ‘signs’ you prayed for. Pray for my peace and understanding and a closer walk with God to understand it all, Hey Latia! It’s not hurt me as much as it did when I went through my first heartbreak. This is your decision, no coercion here. Oh wow Emmy, I’m so happy this post helped you understand God’s no better. He sounded happy. My questions is if me and her work on god and trust him and love him give our 100% could god “change” his mind and see that me and her have working hard to “idolize” the other and he could say yes? Ending a relationship is no easier with age and experience, but sometimes we become so caught in patterns and schedules, the comfortable grooves of our lives, something as disruptive and jarring as ending a relationship can seem too much effort and fuss, even when we’re not at all happy. In the end, God will use everything for our good. To give a bit of insight and some it up so anyone reading can understand what I’m really dealing with it’s like this; I meant the woman who is his ex-wife now in 2015. I love her so much but she has given up on us and now behave as if there’s a new man in her life. I have been in a few relationships and needless to say, none of these worked out. That doesn’t mean you have to ignore him but get some distance. Me and my husband had a rough time for a decade; all our family & friends constantly advising us to get a divorce but we knew it would break our children’s heart. Same day I heard God saying “I love you like this man” guess what he unfriended/unfollowed me on all social media platforms started treating me like an enemy. That relationship made me believe even more in the goodness of God, but after breaking it I have so much less believe in Him. I was happy to find someone who was proud to have me as I was hidden in previous relationships. I’m glad this article helped. . Due to the state of her health post break-up from the abusive boyfriend she got in very poor health-wise manner in due to his extensive knowledge of her health issues he was reached out to to help get her to the emergency room and Urgent Care and after care options. Which is very difficult because I wish I could be reconciled knowing that I would love him better now that I have wisdom and new understanding on what love is, what it looks like, how to receive and give love. God has changed me a lot since the breakup and I thank Him daily for it. But I feel completely different. Before you know it you realize…. Be blessed, Pls let me know what u think of this , and what these words I felt mean also whether stalking is it that bad if the profile is public anyways to get answers? I am hopeful this will be my testimony in the near future. Trust God to help you recognize when a relationship is becoming detrimental to your business, your ministry, or the health of your family life. I got closer to God, felt His peace washing over me, refusing to let me be sad. You know the rollercoaster of emotions, you think you’re just fine and then it all comes crashing back down on you again. There is no one on this earth that you should ever allow to treat you like that. Good luck! I honestly think that this should be a wake-up call for you. One week, two weeks, even three weeks later and my ex had still not been touched by the Holy Spirit. I believe God say no for one good reason. At the end you will appreciate having a partner that has overcome his challenges and can trust God no matter what. Ask yourself why a relationship is so important to you and then give it to God. Not good influences me 6 months ago and I had desperately tried to make excuses and because... My last breakup much… I remain blessed think for one minute that just because you have to face away. I surprisingly I read this article I especially felt in the first step to breaking the tie. 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